Flirting with a girl without coming across as creepy can be a tough art to master. Learning how to impress a girl may seem hard in the beginning, but it really doesn’t have to be.
This won’t be a complete guide on how to flirt with a girl because the subject is just far too vast to be covered in a single article. However, by trying some of this effective techniques will help you flirt with a girl without being creepy or freaking her out and succeed at winning her over in the end.
Techniques of Flirting – Step By Step Guide
Step 1 : Look at Their Hand.
Say you suddenly spot a hottie and you want to make their acquaintance. The first step is to see if there’s a ring.
Step 2: Stare at her softly & Smile.
Next, make eye contact and catch their eye. Keep glancing in their direction. Don’t just stare. Be subtle with little glances. Then use a smirk, head-nod, and look away. Go about your business. When you catch their eye again, give them the grill. Give them the smile like, “You caught me.” Ideally, you should stare at a girl deeply whenever you talk to her while maintaining a calm and relaxed expression on your face. Since the eyes can generally convey a lot of different feelings, you should put them to use whenever you flirt with girls because girls are actually hardwired by their feelings.
Step 3 :Make the first move confident of yourself
Now is time to be bold by introducing yourself. Simply walk up and say hello & introduce yourself. Don’t freeze. Be prepared with the follow-up statement or question. Girls sees a compliment as a great follow-up. There’s an art to it, so refer to The Art of Complimenting. Compliments make someone more likable. The compliment should not be sexual in nature. Truthfully, most girls want guys to make the first move, so think of a great question to ask her. Even if you don’t feel confident at first, you’ll definitely get more comfortable when she responds to you.
Step 4: Watch how she’s reacted to you so far.
If she seems interested in you, she’ll turn her body toward you, make good eye contact and smile back at you. If she’s not interested, she’ll turn away or look over her shoulder at you, and she might roll her eyes or look down her nose at you.
Step 5: Watch Your Exit
The key now is not to wear out your welcome. Know when to exit. If you are going to see them again, end the conversation and pick it up next time. If you aren’t sure if you’ll see them again, ask them for their number. What is the worst thing that can happen? They can say no. If they are hesitant or uncomfortable, leave. Don’t keep trying to sell yourself. If you seem desperate, it’s as bad as seeming insecure.
Step 6: Be yourself when you’re trying to flirt.
Even if your act does impress her momentarily, you’ll lose her trust and interest when she figures out you’ve been trying to fool her. Girls can smell a liar, so you’re better off being who you are from the beginning. Do not attempt extreme images such as:
- Macho man
- Super-smooth and fly
- Cool dude
- Pick-up artist
We aren’t born being good at flirting. The more you do it, the more comfortable you become.
This lesson doesn’t ends here, watch out for the next article to Learn & Master in Flirting
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